Getting Your Sea Legs

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The subject of grief is never an easy one to discuss but I have discovered over these last 30 years that death and dying are subjects we will all face, if WE live long enough.

I have included the link to my You Tube Channel Playlist for the grief journey book I have written, and now recorded, so for you, it is free. My story is multi-faceted and today I want to discuss Sea Legs.

For many people, getting your Sea Legs has to do with travel – once you have been on a plane, sitting for WAY too long, you need to walk slowly and methodically for a few minutes before your gait is back to your norm. For others, Sea Legs refers to that transition time after a cruise – how it feels to walk on the ship – and then again, walking back on dry land.

My experience with watching others get their Sea Legs after the death of a loved one, also has a bit of a pattern to it. When someone dies, and of course, this is MY opinion and MY journey, it may depend on HOW the person died, a long illness, sudden death, or maybe a car crash … but the grief journey may be similar for many of us.

The first day/week/month/year after a loved one dies may be very foggy days for sure … putting one foot in front of the other may be all you can muster up for that time frame. Sometimes, the fog lifts for a time – then BACK TO FOG again with little or no warning.

My best advice, is BE PATIENT with yourself. As death and dying is different, yet similar, the grief journey is complex yet does offer a bit of a pattern for many of us.

Sea Legs may also have to do with C legs – Confidence about trying your hand at total INDEPENDENCE rather than the DEPENDENCE you may have enjoyed for years before the death. Can you go out in public again ? Can you smell a certain fragrance again ? Can you hear a certain song again ? Can you handle that holiday yet ? Can you flip the page of that calendar yet ? The DeathVersary is another very real thing – the calendar can be your best friend – OR your very worst enemy … and then MY take is … How can we help other people through their grief journey – in my case, I offer some tips in one of my books … “He Hit The Clouds Running … and never looked back … ”

May you get your Sea Legs !!!

Cathy Weaver

Cathy Weaver began Networking full time in June of 2008, when she founded her Miracles With Water company. She started Networking all over the Greater Kansas City area and was soon referred to as a ‘Master Networker’. Her involvement in these groups over the years has actually awarded her designations such as 2012 Volunteer of the Year for the Olathe Chamber of Commerce; a four-time Bartlett-Olson Membership Achievement Award Recipient; and Cathy was voted into the KC Magazine’s 2013 Class of Most Influential Women. In 2018, Cathy was selected as the Kansas Women Business Advocate of the Year by the Kansas Department of Commerce. With the success of her Kangen Water business, dba Miracles With Water, Cathy also found the time to write 3 books: "Networking On Steroids" published in 2012, "He Hit The Clouds Running...and never looked back" published in 2017 and "Networking On Steroids PQ" published in 2020. From #water to #networking to #grief and beyond, Cathy may be that person YOU would like to have speak to your group, virtually, of course.

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